Kirsten West Savali: Do Women Really Want to “Think Like a Man?”

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By: Kirsten West Savali, Your Black World

I don’t like Steve Harvey — yes, I said it.

To be more precise, since I’ve never met the man personally, I don’t like what Steve Harvey represents.

There is an arrogance—a barely sheathed tone of alpha-male superiority that permeates everything he spews from politics to relationships—that simply makes my skin crawl. In his controversial “book,” Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, he presumes that women are so desperate to snare a man that they will blindly lap up advice from one who manipulates his two divorces into a negative reflection of his ex-wives characters, rather than his questionable skill at being a husband.  In a deliberate attempt at adverse-feminism, he casts women as simple-minded huntresses who—with a simple fifteen-dollar literary weapon from Barnes & Noble—will be armed with the sophisticated techniques needed to catch our flawed masculine prey.  To make matters worse, he has a consistent habit of illuminating the misogyny in the Bible for public consumption, as if the Great One himself parted the clouds and said, “Woman, thou shall be a lady in the streets, but a freak in the sheets… (((sheets)))… (((sheets)))…”

 

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  • Sue

    in my opinion Steve is from the old school if you know what i mean where men use to be polite to women open the door for them help them out the car.. .ect.. you get it, We need to go back to that place maybe things will change, all this i can do this bymyself stuff is why we’re in the situations we’re in now  

  • Tee

    Why don’t you ask black folks if they will continue to spend $$$ DAILY in these Asian owned beauty supply stores? Where they disrespect you and follow you around like you are about to robb the place. Who cares if you like Steve Harvey or not…do you think he’s losing any sleep?!?!  You are the main crab at the bottom of the bucket, reaching up grabbing everything in sight!!

  • Wallaceharris62

    so ture

  • Ron ransom

    My comment is about Steve Harvey, I saw him at a golf tourney in Ohio, and I got the impression he was full of Strve Harvey. Therefore I feel he probably has that attitude as a ” I’m a big deal and you’re not, as the saying goes every brother is not a brother…peace

  • http://www.corruptpreachers.com/ mspattymelt

    Thought is was just me..but true what you said…he really aint telling women nothing that your wise grandmoma aint said!  He just put it in book form with a price tag…women I agree need to stop being so naive and giving up the “cookies” so quickly to a smooth talking brother that knows what buttons to push to get your clothes off…and for the average brother it is all about the chase and once they “conquer” their prey it is on to the next victim…the other thing is that men know that so many women are just plain desperate and they have to move in quick for the kill…women need to start exercising restraint and better judgement in character!  I don t feel him either and just like the “pimping” pastor he throws in just a little God to get the sympathy of women and to appeal to their emotions…anyway I ll just wait for a “bootleg” copy to circulate that way I don t fell that I suported he…..lol

    • Queenofmeanest

      Grandma may be teaching this, but some black woman either forgot Granny’s lessons or never bothered to learn.

    • Queenofmeanest

      Grandma may be teaching this, but some black woman either forgot Granny’s lessons or never bothered to learn.

  • Omartorrance

    I feel you because i dont like Steve harvey either. My reasoning is different. I hate his emphasis of his “country accent” and the fact that he has a radio cmercial for his show that goes “Ignance, is at an all time high on the steve harvey mornin show”. All that said, i dont think its cool to put the man in blast because of your personal beliefs and the power that you have (ability to post or submit this on a popular website) like the brother said, its very crab in a barrel ish to basically convince people to not see his movie based on YOUR personal feelings and beliefs that may not be true, reffering to his divorces. Lastly, black men are flawed???? Cmon sis. I respect your opinion and all but damn.

  • Omartorrance

    I feel you because i dont like Steve harvey either. My reasoning is different. I hate his emphasis of his “country accent” and the fact that he has a radio cmercial for his show that goes “Ignance, is at an all time high on the steve harvey mornin show”. All that said, i dont think its cool to put the man in blast because of your personal beliefs and the power that you have (ability to post or submit this on a popular website) like the brother said, its very crab in a barrel ish to basically convince people to not see his movie based on YOUR personal feelings and beliefs that may not be true, reffering to his divorces. Lastly, black men are flawed???? Cmon sis. I respect your opinion and all but damn.

  • Omartorrance

    I feel you because i dont like Steve harvey either. My reasoning is different. I hate his emphasis of his “country accent” and the fact that he has a radio cmercial for his show that goes “Ignance, is at an all time high on the steve harvey mornin show”. All that said, i dont think its cool to put the man in blast because of your personal beliefs and the power that you have (ability to post or submit this on a popular website) like the brother said, its very crab in a barrel ish to basically convince people to not see his movie based on YOUR personal feelings and beliefs that may not be true, reffering to his divorces. Lastly, black men are flawed???? Cmon sis. I respect your opinion and all but damn.

  • Omartorrance

    I feel you because i dont like Steve harvey either. My reasoning is different. I hate his emphasis of his “country accent” and the fact that he has a radio cmercial for his show that goes “Ignance, is at an all time high on the steve harvey mornin show”. All that said, i dont think its cool to put the man in blast because of your personal beliefs and the power that you have (ability to post or submit this on a popular website) like the brother said, its very crab in a barrel ish to basically convince people to not see his movie based on YOUR personal feelings and beliefs that may not be true, reffering to his divorces. Lastly, black men are flawed???? Cmon sis. I respect your opinion and all but damn.

  • Omartorrance

    I feel you because i dont like Steve harvey either. My reasoning is different. I hate his emphasis of his “country accent” and the fact that he has a radio cmercial for his show that goes “Ignance, is at an all time high on the steve harvey mornin show”. All that said, i dont think its cool to put the man in blast because of your personal beliefs and the power that you have (ability to post or submit this on a popular website) like the brother said, its very crab in a barrel ish to basically convince people to not see his movie based on YOUR personal feelings and beliefs that may not be true, reffering to his divorces. Lastly, black men are flawed???? Cmon sis. I respect your opinion and all but damn.

  • Cindy

    Right on, Kirsten.  Well spoken. I was stupid enough to buy his lastest book out of curiosity but knowing full well I’ve alwarys disagreed with this man’s points of view from the very beginning.  My own sons ages 19 and 22 harangued me.

  • Nuodyssey1

    I think you haters need to step back, you just don’t get it! All Steve Harvey was doing is telling the Ladies that they need to RESPECT Themselves and demand respect from the men they choose to get involved with, stop going to bed with men before you get to know what their intentions are. Steve Harvey is a man, he has not been a perfect man but he is certainly qualified to tell you how they think. He’s been there.

  • L.

    If women start opening their own doors and stop chasing money, they will have more time to figure out who they are and what they have to offer a relationship besides being a woman. I am happily married to a successful man who told me something very important: he could open my door easily then control my spending and every other part of my life. When I learned to be self-sufficient, I also became self-empowered.  

  • Odayallday

    I’m an intelligent Black Woman. I am not a feminist, nor will I lay down and let a man walk over me. Steve Harvey’s book may not have reflected the thought process of every Black woman, but unfortunately his book was not only relevant, but needs to become a part of curriculum for many Black women. Look at our young girls, look who too many of them mimic, video vixen’s…I once had an older woman advise me to watch soap opera’s to teach me about life and relationships 0_o.  Everything ain’t for everybody…but why throw him under the bus and practically call for a boycott on his movie. Boycott the Koch brotha’s who are trying to railroad our Black men into prison. As for Steve- let him do Steve.

    • Wallaceharris62

      well said,

    • Thephotographer4you

      WOOT! Thank you…

    • Anonymous

      Amen to boycotting the Koch brothers!  I am not a fan of Steve Harvey, but I will say that nuggets of truth exist behind all of his nonsense.  I have heard brothers say it repeatedly – if you act like a lady, then you will get treated like one.  All you have to do is ride public transportation and listen.  This exercise alone will show you that, in no uncertain terms, some of us did not get the memo and are just living wrong.  Steve doesn’t do anything for me, but if he can reach a certain demographic in the African American community and get them to strive to do better than I am cool with that.  I still will not buy his books.   

  • Claudefoley

    YES ! I think Black People should go see Steve Harvey’s new movie.People shouldn’t let a movie make decision’s for them.Everyone is entitle to their on opinion,Steve is only voiceing his opinion.Women should get to know the man first and find out what he is about,before they jump in the sack with him.They are still a lot of good women left in this world that have respect for themself’s,and they are still good men left in this world, that show respect to women?We need to get to know one another first,before we throw any stones?

  • al

    i do not induldge in nor do i ever try to or consciously hate my fellow human beings ok,but mr harvey is a hustler all you have to do is listen to the guy ok.his speech or his diction is not what you might call plausible and or eloquent.the man just got lucky ok.somebody opened the entertainment biz.door and the guy [CRAWLED IN ] THE MAN AS A COMEDIAN IS NOT FUNNY YET HE AND OTHER JOKERS LIKE [ CEDRIC THE SO CALLED ENTERTAINER CLAIMS TO BE THE ORIGINAL  KINGS OF COMEDY]  the only original kings of black comedy that i know of is [RUDY RAYMORE ] RICHARD PRYOR ]and [ RED FOX ] THOSE GUYS WOULD RUN RACE TRACKS AROUND .HARVEY AND HIS CREW OF WANNA BE COMEDIANS. [EDDIE MURPHY AND EDDIE GRIFFIN ] are talented  entertainers.i have not read the book [ ACT LIKE A LADY THINK LIKE A MAN ] A REALLY STUDID TITLE FOR A BOOK OK number one reason is a woman is a woman and a man is a man ok.i wonder if things will still suck when women finally get their chance to rule the world.if we as a species can survive long enough to allow them to do so..let me say this to enlighten those who do not know the score.if women were to start [ thinking like a man can you imagine the amount of problems we would have /instead of  [ 150 MILLION MEN WOMEN AND CHILDREN KILLED IN THE LAST 60 YRS.BY WARING NATIONS AMERICA INCLUDED THE DEATH TOLL AND DESTRUCTION WOULD HAVE BEEN FAR WORSE MAYBE DOUBLE OK.listen up and wake da hell up and realise we men are just plain [ crazy -greedy mentally insecure and in most cases mentally unstable [yeah i said it and it does not make me feel any lesser of a man to make those and any other so called controversial statements which by the way may never be published on this site ok,bottomline is simply this women cannot afford to think like men because men are pre programmed to domminate- eliminate and control the competition or anyone and that includes you my dear woman stupid men respects so called  power money and guns ]. not women why do do you think you had to fight so hard to get your equal rights marching protesting getting beat down by the govt,s henchmen =police and this is before martin luther king ,s marches i am talking about white women who probably got the whole thing started back in the 30,and 40,s ok [ GOTTA GIVE CREDIT WHERE AND WHENEVER IT IS DUE OK] yeah you know me me i like to [ ramble on but sometimes  i feel the need to take the long [ route i in order for you to fully understand wher i am going with this lecture but as long as you women continue to allow yourself and your children to believe that [ FAIRY TALE STORY ABOUT THE ENTITY THAT WE CALL GOD CREATED CREATED MAN IN HIS OWN IMAGE BUT THEN  DECIDED THAT YOU THE WOMAN WERE LESS WORTHY SO I WILL JUST MAKE YOU FROM A PIECE OF [ BONE ]FROM THIS MAN,S RIB AND NOT ONLY THAT HE  THIS ENTITY THAT WE LIKE TO REFER TO AS HE AND HIM AND FATHER AND ALL THE OTHER MALE NAMES AND TITLES MADE THE MAN FIRST AND YOU MY DEAR 2ND DO YOU FULLY  UNDERSTAND WHAT THESE CON MEN ARE TRYING TO TELL YOU AND OR PRE PROGRAMME YOU TO BELIEVE YOU ARE 2ND CLASS AS IN UNWORTHY TO BE MADE THE SAME WAY AND TIME AS THIS MAN ADAM AND BY USING HIS RIB TO MAKE YOU = YOU WILL BE  [ INDEBTED ] TO THIS MAN FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE OK BECAUSE YOU OWE YOUR EXISTENCE TO HIM AND JUST LIKE A MAXED OUT [ CREDIT CARD YOU WILL BE PAYING ON THAT DEBT FOR  MANY MANY YEARS TO COME.THE WHOLE MAN MADE RELIGIOUS TEACHINGS AND PREACHINGS IS A SCAM BUT THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE TOO GULLIBLE=DUMB OR BLIND WILL CONTINUE TO HUMBLY BELIEVE AND SUCCUMB TO THE CON ARTIST THAT HAS BEEN SCREW US FOR 199,S OF YRS, AND ILL CONTINUE TO SO AS LONG AS WE ALLOW THEM TO CONTROL US.steve harvey is a slick guy he said his goal is to make 250 million a year and in the process of doing so like a few other corporate media [ PUPPETS ] SELL THEIR SOUL FOR A PIECE OF PAPER.he also stated that he is blessed and that it is ok to be greedy and not have to share his wealth with his hood buddies whom are not as blessed as he is .WHAT A FREAKIN  IDIOT] THIS MAN HAS THE NERVE  TO CLAIM THAT HE IS A CHRISTIAN .NOW YOU KNOW WHY I DO NOT TRUST  PEOPLE WHO CLAIM TO BE RELIGIOUS WITH THE EXCEPTION OF THE  TRULY RELIGIOUS FOLKS THE [  BUDDHIST] -THEY WILL NOT ASK FOR 10% OF YOUR INCOME=TIDES THEY OWN NOTHING EXCEPT THE  ORANGE ROBE THAT THEY WEAR AND THEY WILL NOT KILL YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD.DAMN ALMOST FORGOT THEY DO NOT [ LIVE IN MANSIONS DRIVE EXPENSIVE CARS AND AS IN SOME CASES CHEAT ON THEIR WIVES BUT HEY I GUESS IF YOU DO ALL OF THESE  TERRIBLY NASTY SINFUL THINGS IT IS OK AS LONG AS YOU DO IT IN THE NAME OF THAT DEAD HIPPIE WHITE GUY WHO IS SUPPOSED TO SAVE US FROM OUR OWN FEARS AND MENTAL INSECURITIES BUT STILL COULD NOT EVEN SAVE HIMSELF WHILE BEING KILLED ON THE CROSS HE MADE ONE LAST FINAL PLEA BELIEVING THAT THE [ ENTITY THAT WE CALL GOD HIS SO CALLED MYTHICAL FATHER WOULD REACH DOWN TO  EARTH FROM OUTER SPACE AND  SAVE HIM .[ LORD GOD WHY HAST THOU FORSAKEN ME ] THAT,S WHAT HAPPENS TO US WHEN WE LIVE IN A FANTASY WORLD.THERE YA HAVE IT LADIES NO CHEAP SHOTS JUST THE  FACTS /WELL MOST OF IT OK-EVER HEARD THE SAYING IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR THE BETTER THEN YOU HAVE TO CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK BUT UNFORTUNATELY THAT IS CONSIDERED TOO MUCH HARD WORK TO THINK FOR YOURSEL INSTEAD JUST SIT AND WAIT AND DO NOT EVEN BOTHER TO QUESTION ANY SO CALLED AUTHORITY TYPE FIGURE .JUST BE STAY IN YOUR PLACE AND BE QUIET LITTLE OBEDIENT MENTAL SLAVE WHO NOW HAS PUT THE SCHACKLED ON THEIR BRAINS AND WAIT THE DEAD WHITE GUY WILL COME ONE DAY AFTER YOU ARE DEAD ROTTEN AND FORGOTTEN TO SAVE YOU BY THE WAY IT HAS 14 BILLION YRS WHERE IS THIS DUDE AT MUST BE A  GAZILLION TRILLION LIGHT YEARS AWAY FROM US I PERSONALLY BELIEVE THSAT HE LIVES  ON PLANET  $$$$$$=slick game for the poor gullible   blindly trusting and believing souls.ok don,t get so mad at ol boy steve he is just doing  and saying what he believes is his god given right and that is take advantage of any and all who are willing to subscribe to his way of thinking and doing a true slave of corporate america.bye yall.say hello to masa for me ok

    • barbara

      At first I only intended to read a paragraph or two of your long rant, but I found myself reading it all.  Vey good!!!  lol  I’m still laughing.

  • Thephotographer4you

    You must be one of those bloggers that is taught to put down their own kind…I frown. I use to pay attention to your type of blog until I realize you and other urban blogger are hell bent on self hate and bashing your own race. NEXT!

  • Queenofmeanest

    Steve, I can take him or leave him  However, the blogger is p*ssed because he is making $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and she isn’t.

    Give the man his props for making it.

  • Queenofmeanest

    Steve, I can take him or leave him  However, the blogger is p*ssed because he is making $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and she isn’t.

    Give the man his props for making it.

  • Michael Winfrey

    I must admit that this article was well written, but it’s intent is
    ill-mannered and something that is slanderous to anyone’s character. The
    bible is quote in this article, but again with the wrong intent.
    Regardless of how you feel personally about Steve Harvey, you like
    anyone else have the right not to support or purchase his book, however
    it has been on the bestsellers list because of people’s support of what
    is written in it. I don’t agree with every comment or statement that
    Steve makes, but that’s usually the case with anyone who you listen to
    for more than a little while. This is an opportunity to lift up anyone
    who has accomplished what Mr. Harvey has accomplished in such a short
    time. In the United States there are more worthy persons that could be
    attacked for their opinions and actions. Our children our being left
    behind because of lack of proper education or parents who stop being
    parents, or our local police authorities continuing to abuse their
    power. Let’s not forget that we have built more prisons than we have
    college, and African Americans lead in most epidemics and negative
    categories in America. This list could be never-ending of things that
    deserve such great literary thought, but instead you use this God-given
    talent to tear down another person. We’ve witnessed this same thing
    happening to America’s first African American President (at least the
    first documented). Instead of people writing about another person’s
    accomplishments, we spend worthless hours tearing that down. Why is
    that? Probably because the media feeds, lives, and survives off of
    negative press. Had you gotten a personal look behind the scenes of Mr.
    Harvey’s life I am sure that you could have written about all of the
    positive things that he has brought forth because of his position in
    life. He has a mentoring program for inner-city young men, and his wife
    does the same for young women. There was a time that he donated his
    suits to pastors, and the list goes on and on. More than anything that
    is note-worthy to write about is the fact that Steve Harvey gave his
    life to Christ. If you followed anyone around for 24-hours, including
    yourself, I am sure that there would be plenty negative to write about. A
    Jewish Rabbi once said, “Anyone that has to tear down another to lift
    their cause up, has not arrived.”

  • Michael Winfrey

    I must admit that this article was well written, but it’s intent is
    ill-mannered and something that is slanderous to anyone’s character. The
    bible is quote in this article, but again with the wrong intent.
    Regardless of how you feel personally about Steve Harvey, you like
    anyone else have the right not to support or purchase his book, however
    it has been on the bestsellers list because of people’s support of what
    is written in it. I don’t agree with every comment or statement that
    Steve makes, but that’s usually the case with anyone who you listen to
    for more than a little while. This is an opportunity to lift up anyone
    who has accomplished what Mr. Harvey has accomplished in such a short
    time. In the United States there are more worthy persons that could be
    attacked for their opinions and actions. Our children our being left
    behind because of lack of proper education or parents who stop being
    parents, or our local police authorities continuing to abuse their
    power. Let’s not forget that we have built more prisons than we have
    college, and African Americans lead in most epidemics and negative
    categories in America. This list could be never-ending of things that
    deserve such great literary thought, but instead you use this God-given
    talent to tear down another person. We’ve witnessed this same thing
    happening to America’s first African American President (at least the
    first documented). Instead of people writing about another person’s
    accomplishments, we spend worthless hours tearing that down. Why is
    that? Probably because the media feeds, lives, and survives off of
    negative press. Had you gotten a personal look behind the scenes of Mr.
    Harvey’s life I am sure that you could have written about all of the
    positive things that he has brought forth because of his position in
    life. He has a mentoring program for inner-city young men, and his wife
    does the same for young women. There was a time that he donated his
    suits to pastors, and the list goes on and on. More than anything that
    is note-worthy to write about is the fact that Steve Harvey gave his
    life to Christ. If you followed anyone around for 24-hours, including
    yourself, I am sure that there would be plenty negative to write about. A
    Jewish Rabbi once said, “Anyone that has to tear down another to lift
    their cause up, has not arrived.”

  • Michael Winfrey

    I must admit that this article was well written, but it’s intent is
    ill-mannered and something that is slanderous to anyone’s character. The
    bible is quote in this article, but again with the wrong intent.
    Regardless of how you feel personally about Steve Harvey, you like
    anyone else have the right not to support or purchase his book, however
    it has been on the bestsellers list because of people’s support of what
    is written in it. I don’t agree with every comment or statement that
    Steve makes, but that’s usually the case with anyone who you listen to
    for more than a little while. This is an opportunity to lift up anyone
    who has accomplished what Mr. Harvey has accomplished in such a short
    time. In the United States there are more worthy persons that could be
    attacked for their opinions and actions. Our children our being left
    behind because of lack of proper education or parents who stop being
    parents, or our local police authorities continuing to abuse their
    power. Let’s not forget that we have built more prisons than we have
    college, and African Americans lead in most epidemics and negative
    categories in America. This list could be never-ending of things that
    deserve such great literary thought, but instead you use this God-given
    talent to tear down another person. We’ve witnessed this same thing
    happening to America’s first African American President (at least the
    first documented). Instead of people writing about another person’s
    accomplishments, we spend worthless hours tearing that down. Why is
    that? Probably because the media feeds, lives, and survives off of
    negative press. Had you gotten a personal look behind the scenes of Mr.
    Harvey’s life I am sure that you could have written about all of the
    positive things that he has brought forth because of his position in
    life. He has a mentoring program for inner-city young men, and his wife
    does the same for young women. There was a time that he donated his
    suits to pastors, and the list goes on and on. More than anything that
    is note-worthy to write about is the fact that Steve Harvey gave his
    life to Christ. If you followed anyone around for 24-hours, including
    yourself, I am sure that there would be plenty negative to write about. A
    Jewish Rabbi once said, “Anyone that has to tear down another to lift
    their cause up, has not arrived.”

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Mike-Okereke/100000572058772 Mike Okereke

    Hello Dr. Watkins,
         I am surprised at the barrage of negative comments which you heaped on Steve Garvey. Is that jealousy or what? I am really curious to know. I am sure as a fairly young academician or acdemic, Steve would be proud of you, and, if I read him well, would cite you as one of the positive role models in the Black community. But to drop that volley of words at his doorsteps?  … I don’t know, as much as I continue to respect you, and your overall accomplishments.
     For example, comparing what I see now when I watch Family Fued to what that show used to be under Richard Dawson (you probably were too young to know) back in the eighties, and possibly beyond, you will agree with me that I never thought then that Black people were smart enough to win prizes where intellectual display was the norm. I know now that Blacks can achieve such feats as much as Whites or any other race. Steve Harvey, in my view changed all that. He should be credited for that – if nothing else.
    Mike C. Okereke 

  • BTSINGS4U

    IT IS A MOVIE. WHY DO PEOPLE MAKE A BIG DEAL OVER NOTHING? TREAT IT FOR WHAT IT IS A COMEDY. A DAMNED BUSINESS.

  • Arab Queen in Florida

    Not only do I NOT LIKE Steve Harvey, how dare we support a man treats the mother of his child disrespectfully, who died and left Steve Harvey the authority on relationships!!!  I am truly disappointed at how Black America allows this man to make one dime but in the same breath treat his ex-wife with so much contempt that she is so hurt, she continues to try to get folks to understand this man is not a nice person.  Can you say “narcissistic sociopath…….”  As much as I like the actors in the upcoming movie (I can’t even bring myself to call him an author) I will not be going to the movies to see this one.

  • Rose

    You are a sad person. Steve Harvey is not saying be a man he said think like a man so you can maybe get and keep a man if you want one. Steve has made some of the biggest mistakes a black man can make and he admits this. He has daughters and ex-wives, he is trying to save some of us from the misery some of them have suffered.  Listen to his morning broadcast and hear the mini-talk at 6:00 am. He really wants to help. Maybe you should try to help our people and stop bashing them.

  • Rose

    You are a sad person. Steve Harvey is not saying be a man he said think like a man so you can maybe get and keep a man if you want one. Steve has made some of the biggest mistakes a black man can make and he admits this. He has daughters and ex-wives, he is trying to save some of us from the misery some of them have suffered.  Listen to his morning broadcast and hear the mini-talk at 6:00 am. He really wants to help. Maybe you should try to help our people and stop bashing them.