Bishop Eddie Long Accusers Dumped by Attorneys For Violating Confidentiality Clause

bishop eddie long accusers dropped by attorney for violating confidentiality clauseby Dr. Boyce Watkins, Your Black World.

Attorney Brenda Bernstein has dropped the accusers of Bishop Eddie Long as clients because they couldn’t remain quiet. Jamal ParrisSpencer LaGrande and Centino Kemp have been recently challenged by Long’s attorneys, who say that they plan to collect “not less than $900,000″ after the men chose to violate the confidentiality clause of their settlement.

Long’s attorneys are furious that the bishop’s accusers participated in interviews with the Atlanta Journal Constitution, WSB-TV, CNN and even Twitter.  Kemp actually tweeted to Long that ”I was literally your hooker,” and later tweeted “why that’s all I want to no.”

The attorneys are seeking $300,000 per violation.

Most of us know the story of Bishop Eddie Long, so there is no reason to repeat it all.  Effectively, Long was accused by young men in his care of coercing them into performing sexual favors in exchange for gifts, trips, and other enticements.  Most interesting about the case is that in spite of the fact that Long once promised to make the truth public, he reneged on his congregation by enforcing a strict confidentiality clause during the settlement proceedings.

I have no idea why the young men in this case have chosen to violate the clause.  But given that they all violated it together, I suspect that either a) they’ve been given other financial incentives to do so, like a lucrative book deal, or b) they simply cannot keep this story to themselves.  Either way, it appears that the members of the New Birth Missionary Baptist Church are going to have access to at least one version of the truths that has been denied by their very own pastor.  Once these young men raise the stakes by telling their own story, Bishop Long (as in the game of poker) has two choices:  To retort with his own version of the facts or fold his hand and quietly walk away.

When it’s all said and done, the “little ones” will lead the congregation, and the truth may set Eddie Long free.  The same can be said for those in the congregation who may be consciously choosing to live in denial of the fact that their pastor may be a pedophile.  I’m not here to say that any of us knows what happened behind closed doors, but when one looks at the evidence, it’s hard to imagine that there haven’t been some unholy things done to these boys.

When a bunch of young men are willing to give up hundreds of thousands of dollars to tell their story, there is a reason that story must be told.  Personally, I believe the boys are telling the truth.

Dr. Boyce Watkins is a Professor at Syracuse University and founder of the Your Black World Coalition.  To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here.

 

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  • 712nw19terr

    Sadly there are no winners..the young men are out to show us the real Eddie Long! He is dealing with young black men whose reputations are on front street.the truth will set us all free!

  • 712nw19terr

    Mr Long don’t do this to your church! Do the right thing…step down and let your congregation breathe a sigh of relief.

  • Abdulash2504

    Question! Why does a Bishop need to profile his body to the world, was Jesus doing something wrong when he preached? Could he have gotten more followers if he showed his six pack

    • Curious

      That depends on what kind of followers you are trying to attract. 

    • MiliD

      I used to watch EL on TV and I was surprised that he decided to disrobe and wear such tight garments which I felt was not acceptable for a man of God in the pulpit. Something strange about this. Well sure enough, truth be told, it’s strange and he’s paying for it.

  • Anonymous

    I don’t understand why they would risk losing that money that they earned having sex with this criminal preacher. Everyone already knows about their sex lives, so what good does it do to violate the terms of the confidentiality agreement? Someone needs to advise these young men better.

    • Amora

      God wants the truth exposed because Mr. Long may feel remorse (2 Cor 7:10) for being caught and exposed, but he has not “repented”  If he had repented, he would have followed the biblical mandate to step down and stop desecrating the position of bishop/pastor.  God requires truth deep inside of us (Psalm 51), that is why He has exposed the man and won’t let it drop.
       
      These young men are being used of God to keep this issue in Long’s and New Life’s face because it needs to be dealt with spriitually, not just financially.  I agree with Dr. Boyce.  To give up that much money, one would have a reason.  God has called pastors and spiritual leaders in the church bought and paid for in His blood to a higher standard.
       
      I hope these young men find the Lord Jesus themselves.

      • Anonymous

        Where was this god, when the was happening? Why do all of you religious nuts have to bring up god in every conservation? You you love this god so damn much, why don’t you kill yourself right away, so that you can go meet him? This preacher, is just a phony homosexual, and a criminal, and this has nothing to do with god. Why do your god allow people to starve to death, kill innocent children, and wars? You people need to get your heads out of your asses, and come into the real world. There is no white man, up in the sky, watching over you, and there is no damn kingdom up there for you to go to. This is a fairytale, that was beaten into your heads by your slave masters, and you can’t get it out of your minds.

        • MiliD

          You need help. You’re right. There is no white man in the sky watching over you, nor us, but there is the Creator’s spiritual force within you that can give you peace and understanding in all situations if you accept Him as your Lord and Savior. It has nothing to do with slave masters filling garbage in the minds of slaves. Most slave masters were demons themselves, so who wants to believe what they had to say. Besides, if slaves believed them it was only to protect their interests and freedom. The deceit and criminal actions on this earth is the result of sin, which is one of the reason EL victims surfaced. He may be a criminal, but what one does in the dark comes to the light and the LOVE of GOD is the LIGHT.

          • Anonymous

            You are the one that believes in ghosts, not I. Where do you think that religion you rant about came from, your slave masters. The Africans that was brought here didn’t believe in no Jesus Christ, who happen to be a Jew. You are following a Jewish religion, and praying to a Jew, but you are too brain washed, to even know this. You know this Jewish book so well, but you don’t even know where you came from, or what your religion was. So if anyone needs help, it is you.

          • MiliD

            You’re right again. Africans believed in voodoo, slave masters used what was in the bible for their own good, so I understanding clearly what you’re saying. However, there is still a positive higher power within all of us to do what’s right, use best judgment and live by the golden rule, which doesn’t exist anymore. I know where I came from. Do you?

        • Acf3

          PLEASE, ALL WILL NOT BE SAVED .U SHOULD NOT KILL. U HAVE ALOT TO LEARN.THE MIN. U DIE OR U WILLBE WITH GOD OR SATAN. BY THE TIME U READ THIS IAD T MAY BE TO LATE.U NEED TO COME OUT THE WORLD.READ PHILEMON1:12-22 I HOPE GOD (JESUS)AND I PRAY THAT U WILL REPENT AND EXCEPT JESUS.A DIVIL/DEMONS MAY POSSESS A PERSON AND CAUSE DUMBNESS:MATT 9:32/MATTHEW12;22 THE BIBLE IS THE LIVING WORD OF GO. U NEED TO FIND A BIBLE TEACHING CHURCH AND STUDY.

        • MinisterElam

          Two questions moodhead.  Let’s say your right and there is no God.  A believer spends his or her life following the word of this God and at worst they die and that’s that.   But what if your wrong and you spend your life separated from God because you chose not to have a relationship with him.  Then you die and find that you were wrong.  What’s the worst that could happen.  Do you even know.  So I suggest you make an informed decision versus a personal opinion.  Which ever choice you make, it will only effect “You” in the end.  So when you go to sleep tonight or any night.  Ask yourself “What if I am wrong.    I am a Minister and I spent most of my life before choosing God, running the street and doing everything I wanted and felt like doing.  Then one day, a wonderfully unassuming elderly woman asked me this same question.  I spent very little time confident that I was correct that God wasn’t real.  I spent more time wonder, “What if I am wrong”.  So then I tried God for one year and I have been serving Him ever since.  Not because someone lead me to Him, but because I would rather be wrong in my belief in Him and serve him until I die, than to be wrong in my disbelief and lift my eyes up in hell forever.   So if I have to spend 40 more years following God (whom I believe in to my soul) and be wrong in the end, then I think I lived a life, that was lived well.  

  • Blacxkcobra

    Well I’m speechless but on to more bulldogs in the future

  • Nate

    Bishop Long should absolutly get  his money back. With the economy the way it is, he needs to buy some new tight t-shirts and get his wig reconditioned, these things don’t  come cheap. His ministry has to replace the members that did not heed  the forgiveness message given by Dr.T.D. Jakes.

    • blkgalusa

      Now you know you  not right…but funny yes!

    • wealthylady

      LOL!!!!
      @89b09aefca99e2840ac8c22e90c9f4b0:disqus 

    • MiliD

      LOL. Each comment adds much to the truth, and each one of us have different views about this. IMO, this situation is in God’s hands and he will deal with it. However, people will still voice their opinions, but those involved need to get out of the lime light,  allow God to work it out, and legal matters should not concern the public. But remember, the story is not only paying off the young men, but others involved who are cohercing them to talk.  

  • Adebayo

    Question is, are these pictures real or are they doctored? It is one thing to slam Eddie Long for his actions, but quite another to doctor photographs in order to further berate him. Are these pictures he took of himself and sent to men he was supposedly sleeping with?  

  • blkgalusa

    I am so tired of this story…Isn’t there something else to talk about people?  Let’s move on please…

  • http://twitter.com/Pottery56 Pottery56

    I agree with the article. If these young men are still angry after their settlement, either it wasn’t enough money to quell their anger, or they feel that the confidentiality agreement is letting him off the hook.

    Pedophiles should be made to suffer more than financial loss, which his congregation is going to pay.

    • Dianne

      Thank you Pottery!!!  very well said, now this is telling it like it really is.  Its not a good thing to hold in and hide filth in your temple, because you’ll never get well and you’ll never be able to move forward in your life carrying pass baggage. Eddie Long needs to be held accountable 100% for what he has done, and all the money in the world cannot fix or correct /turn around what he did to those young men, and we must remember that those young men are not his only victims, their just the 1/2 % who sacraficed themselves to come forward.  Eddie Long is not innocent, and he needs to be noted down on paper like all other pedophiles. Everytime I see his pictures now, its like God has lifted his covers off him.  He looks so filthy, tainted and foul nasty to me, you can see his filth with a natural eye now.  He even gives body builders a bad name, and a bad taste in your mouth.  Young men!!!  take the money and run, be strong and keep moving, because there is an end to this madness, and if God did not want these filthy acts exposed it would all still be hidden away, but several warnings came before destruction, and pride comes before a fall…  God said in the last days everything under the sun would be expose to the light for the reasons of (Deliverance)…  Eddie Long should count himself blessed that God has allowed him to continue walking the face of this earth, many others have falling dead in the past couple yrs since all these evil act started surfacing…

  • MsObsidian

    This story is really getting on my nerves.  I will be glad when people stop making such a big deal about it.  Both Eddie Long and those boys involved are full of sh*t.  I wasn’t there so I can not say he did or did not involve himself inappropriately with those young men, but the evidence points to fact that he did do something illicit (i.e. settling out of court).  Eddie Long is just another example of a “snakes in the pull pit”.  Also, the young men are full of shit too.  They waited all these years to start running their mouths.  I guess Eddie Long got tired of their butts (literally) and found himself some other play thing.  So, they got pissed off when Eddie wasn’t paying for it anymore.  They weren’t complaining when he was taking them on expensive trips and buying them expensive toys, etc.  Eddie Long enjoyed poking them and they enjoyed being poked until the funds ran out.  Anyone with good sense suspects that Mr. Long is guilt.  But those young men are just as guilty as Eddie Long because they don’t know their limit and they are silly n*ggas who  can’t keep their damn mouths shut.  Their dumb asses are running their mouth so much that their own lawyer don’t want to deal with them anymore.  It seems all these young men are doing is perpetuating salacious gossip and trying to garner more publicity than they deserve.  It will be funny if they don’t get a book deal, etc.  It seems they are on the fast lane of being pimped again!

    • Lrw427

      You are very ignorant. These young men and any other that EL inappropriately dealt with, have been scarred for life. Especially since they were fatherless. They were groomed by him. They trusted him. I know, I was a member at his church for several years.  The reason their atty dropped them was because they broke the confidentiality agreement. The reason they broke their silence, is so that the TRUTH will prevail. See the settlement was to SHUT THEM UP – they will forgo the money in order to tell their stories. Hopefully, you are someone in Bishop’s camp, trying to damage control, because I can’t see any real person who has a heart for other people say something like this… so very sad!!

      • MsObsidian

        @ Lrw427 … It is what it is.  What I said stands.  We can go back and forth but I refuse too.  Both parties are full of sh*t and need to get out of the lime light because we as the Black community got better things to think and talk about.

        • Abdula

          speak for yourself…easy for you to say get out of the lime light when you didn’t have a hard d**** rammed up in you. 

        • http://www.facebook.com/people/Janet-Coney/100000401973840 Janet Coney

          Most of us are not obsessed with this matter, Taking a few minutes to reflect and comment about this matter does not  prevent us from doing anyhing we need to be doing for ourselves and our families.

  • Forgiven

    Praying for healing, deliverance and forgiveness.  Sounds like the Pastor needs to be delivered from pedophiliac behavior, repent for lying or, rather, witholding the truth and seek the forgiveness of God, his wife, children, family, congregation and, of course, the boys he’s alleged to have illicitly been involved with.  The young men need to forgive the pastor for what he did to them and ask God to heal them of the wounds that were caused from this sickening behavior.  Money won’t heal their hurt. They could get paid millions but without the emotional healing, it won’t matter.  And, if from this or a previous event, they’ve chosen to live a life beyond what’s pleasing to God, they need to seek His forgiveness.  As a survivor of sexual abuse, it took me years to realize and accept that God does forgive molesters.  I also had to relinquish my abuser of his control over my life and forigve him.  As a Christian and human, I know what this man did (allegedly) is despicable.  But remember, we are instructed to forgive and pray for even people like him.  And let’s not forget about what Eddie Long’s poor wife must be dealing with.  She needs prayer as well.  Let’s not take an already pathetic situation and allow it to make us mean, evil, hard hearted and unforgiving.  Even so, come Lord Jesus.

    • Dianne

      Real spiritual healing and cleansing deliverance don’t come over night, and at the end of the day, until God is through, it still is what it is…  People get God’s word twisted just to ease their own conscience according to what makes them safe.  But the truth is God does say forgive, but forgiving them doesn’t mean running with them and continuing to sit still under their ministery.  God also said forgive, but you’ll still have to reap that seed that you sew’d, thats the word rather it be a good seed or a bad seed, bottomline.  God also said come from amongest them and be yea seperate thus saith the Lord, and (I WILL BE YOUR GOD), and you will be my people.  If you really understand those words as plain as day, it says straight out: until you come from amongest them you are not Gods people.  Okay… so lets not sugarcoat Gods words, thast why we as african americans are lost in America and cannot hear the voice of our God, niether do we celebrate the true sabbath according to Gods calendar, therefore we are not worshiping God under his true laws of the spirit.  With all this being said, until we come into unison with Gods true laws and totally walk away from the laws of the man, and all the self made laws that have been put before us by the men of the cloth, whom Jesus talked about royaly in the book of matthews BS like Eddie Long and all of the above will never be over.  This blog board can holla all day, everyday, 24-7 and not one damn thing will change until we as a people (1 whole), come together in UNITY under one God and One Law…   As far as I’m concerned there is nothing else that can be said, because it will inly be all talk and no show or change…  Even so, come Lord Jesus…wink!!!! 

      • Forgiven

        And you’re one of the ones hollering loudest.  Who are you really angry at?  Eddie Long?  His members?  The body of Christ?  African Americans?  The Gregorian Calendar?  America?  Who?  You want us to do this and that according to the Bible yet you are loose in your use of profanity.  You’ve made my point.  It’s so easy to throw stones, even when a person deserves it.  But while we’re throwing things about us come to light should have us being stoned as well. 

        My faith and trust is in Jesus, not man.  The more you focus on man, the more you FORGET who the real enemy is and who he uses.  I am in no way excusing anything Eddie Long or these guys did and I don’t use God’s word to sugarcoat because His word is not a sugarcoater nor it to be sugarcoated.  And, please, stop clumping all African Americans in with your opinions.   At the foot of the cross, my race does NOT come into play and salvation has only one color- Red for the Blood of Jesus.  Wink!!

  • Skeezix2

    Interesting story but I suspect the young men are still the loosers/winners (depends on your point(s) of view!

  • Smokie54

    How does any of this helps the church or bring honor and glory to the Lord?

  • Amora

    God wants the truth exposed because Mr. Long may feel remorse (2 Cor 7:10) for being caught and exposed, but he has not “repented”  If he had repented, he would have followed the biblical mandate to step down and stop desecrating the position of bishop/pastor.  God requires truth deep inside of us (Psalm 51), that is why He has exposed the man and won’t let it drop.
     
    These young men are being used of God to keep this issue in Long’s and New Life’s face because it has needs to be dealt with spriitually, not just financially.  I agree with Dr. Boyce.  To give up that much money, one would have a reason.  God has called pastors and spiritual leaders in the church bought and paid for in His blood to a higher standard.
     
    I hope these young men find the Lord Jesus themselves.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_QXM4FMW4IGFZFXH3QOXNXGZNVQ Hmmm

    I woul like to wish these young men luck in the quest to tell the truth about this sinful man.
    Hang in there and you will recoup the money in other ways.

  • Aisha_jacksonmuhammad

    this just irrelevant to me!  Whats relevant is Eddie Long deceiving everyone into believing he was a straight man! And him being a married man whom has been cheating on his wife with men! He is a homosexual!  And had been in the pulpit all these years lying!  Thats the dang news story!  I am appalled at his lying cheating behavior! Which could have been potentially dangerous for his wife!  He is just beyond all bounds!  And he needs a trip to the woodshed!  Not only does he need to lose his position but he needs his butt whupped for the lies and for cheating and the potential danger!  He is beyond all bounds in his behavior!  He was in the pulpit being a lying cheating homosexual!  Get outta here with this trite!!!!

    • Aisha_jacksonmuhammad

      as a Muslim and a woman he is disgusting!  THE WORST KIND OF BROTHER! 

  • wealthylady

    Waiting on the book & the movie!

    • gunzNroses

      me too! I wonder who would play as E. Long?

  • jenkinsk

    Eddie Long is what he is… I just cannot believe anyone still attends his church.

    Don’t get it twisted… No male like Eddie Long does a damn thing by himself. Without question there are multiple guilty parties involved in the disgusting and abusive behavior. Nasty bastards run in tight circles and cover for each other. Regardless of where these types exists on the planet they employee the same strategies, and tactics.

    May they all reap what they sew…

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Sandra-Williamson/100000346981994 Sandra Williamson

    The real issue is who is talking,and why do we continue to carry this insane story? This young man is out of control Why? He has told his story and still has no comfort in himself no satisfaction…. when will it stop… what more can he do to the Bishop? This sound like the spirit of rejection this is not about money.

  • Sansalcots2000

    I believer them TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  God’s church is definitely not visible!!!

  • VB

    I must admit to being fascinated that so many people who consider themselves devout believers in God and Jesus Christ also believe that super compensated Preachers have some special relationship with the ” Almighty ” and ignore their obvious devotion to money and their failure to behave in a ” Jesus Like Manner ” .What accounts for so many People believing that people like Benny Hinn could touch someone and restore their sight , or ability to ability to walk ? How was Jim Jones able to convince people to give all of their possessions , give unto him their Wives for sex, or feed their Children and themselves suicidal poisons ?Is there a difference between a cult and some Churches ?Is there something about the Black Community that makes us more susceptible to the ” God Wants You To Be Wealthy Stories ” told by ” Pimp Like ” Orators like Long, Frederick K. Price ( tells his audience that he and his Wife drive a different color Rolls for every day of the week ) , Creflo Dollar ( what a name has now promoted his Wife so they can make “mo money, mo money ,mo money ” ) , and others ? As for long he has talked his way into remaining at the head of this large congregation in spite of the apparent sexual abuse and immorality of taking advantage of young boys , his about face in fighting the allegations , his refusal to admit any wrong doing what so ever, and the payout of a reported 15 million dollar settlement that no doubt came from the funds of the Church. I have no doubt that he will be able to overcome this obvious investment fraud and continue to fool some of the people all of the time .

  • Acf3

    SODOMY/ HOMOSEXUALITY– =LESBIANISM=PEDERASTY! GENESIS 19:5 LEVITCUS20:13. SODOMY=VILE AFFECTION:ROMANS 1:26, SODOOMY : IS ANEL SEX IS A WORK OF THE FLESH GALATIANS 5:19–21 A CATAMITE _ =A MALE WHO SUBMITS HIS BODY TO UNNATURAL SEX ACTS 1 COR. 6:9 JOEL 3:3

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_YJW2HKBIBSRGOLC6Y5AVYT526Y Just-Thinking

    Bishop Eddie Looong! Is at it again. This is why I don’t mess with religon anymore. People talk about what is truth and don’t live it. It’s rap!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1808832017 Frank E. Williams

    The real truth to the matter is for u mr Long only the Truth and nothing but the real Truth  and God All Mighty can set u free!!! Do u really have the Gutts to stand up and tell the Truth and be free? The world takes a dim and comdemming view of what u did to those boys! Be not fooled God is not Mocked! Pay Now Or Later but the reality is My God will make u Pay.

  • MinisterElam

    Wow, we spend so much energy, focused on the Bishop and these young men.  I am not taking sides or condemning anyone on either side.  I don’t know who did what, I wasn’t there.  Here is what I will say.   I have heard Bishop demonized and I have heard these young men accused of being “in it for the money”.  Whichever of the two that are true, one this is clear.  Satan has again managed create chaos in the house of God again.  When will real Christians stop doing what the rest of the world does.  When we will stop talking so much and pray more.  Now I am not saying that we allow our pastors, leaders or members to commit crimes and not report it.  But, we certainly should not be mouth pieces for the media, rumors and back bitters.   David was a man after God’s own heart, yet he slept with a married woman, got her pregnant, plotted the murder her husband Uriah, so he could have Bethsheba.  David was a great leader and King, but a failure as a father and husband.  Yet, when he repented (To God, not people), God loved him so much that David received forgiveness and his Kingdom was spared.  God is a forgiving God.  He doesn’t require us to go to man to repent.  While I believe if you wronged someone, God requires that we set it right and move on.  (Matthew 5;21-48).  God not only expects us to reconcile with the people we have wronged but that we settle the matter quickly.  Not to drag things out in court where God’s will is replaced with man’s ways.  So “IF” Bishop Long or “IF” the young men are either honest or dishonest about what happened, one thing remains certain.   God knows our hearts and our intentions.   What burdens my heart the most is how the church community has reacted.  How is it that so many attached the success and power of Bishop’s Church to the Bishop.   He is a man called by God, not God Himself.  This is why churches are so divided in doctrine and in leadership.  I don’t understand how so many people can say things like, that church is doomed, or now his members are so lost, or the worst of all, that church will never be the same now that so many people have left the church because of this scandal.  We should never make the man more powerful than the message.  In other words, even if the messenger fails to follow the message, God’s word doesn’t change.   The sad thing is that many people left the church for several reasons.  One, I believe was because there were only there because of the churches fame and wealth.  Like many in the bible, who only followed Christ when it was safe or until their needs were met, people today only want to be part of the finished product and only as long as it is popular.  “They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us: but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us.” (1 John 2;19).  So I said all that to say two things.  God never wanted us to follow a leader down the wrong road, and if  Bishop Long was doing the things he has been accursed of, where were the true people of God who knew what is was doing and did nothing to get the Man of God back on track.  Someone knew what was happening when it was happening, yet did nothing, not even confront the devil.   It’s funny that we love what is lovely, but can’t love a person the most when they deserve it the least.  But we can jump on the other side of the table with their executioners and judge them.   Second, where were all the real, holy ghost filled, know the word for yourself saints?  God didn’t want us to be robots following every command without question.  Even Job sought God’s guidance when he lacked understanding.  Even Peter reached out for Jesus when he was in doubt.  “Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth” (2 Timothy 2:15).  I mean seriously.  When did we become so perfect that we could judge the Bishop or these young men.   How many people have got to the alter and prayed that hopeful fervent prayer that God restores what the devil so clearly has torn down.  What that a different God that pulled great men of the bible from defeat to victory.  I don’t think so.  Well all I can say, is that I am glad I will stand in judgement one day before God, rather than the saint of God.  Since it appears we lack the “Christ-Like” ability to look at our brothers and sisters in their worst times, like God looks at us in ours.   “And the King shall
    answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have
    done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto
    me.”  (Matthew 25;40). 

    Shame on us when we love only what is lovely.