Dr. Boyce: Why Black Men Continue to Suffer, and Why It Must End Now

by Dr. Boyce Watkins, Your Black World.

I recently read a report stating that black male joblessness is the highest its been in 40 years.  In addition to being the least likely to have gainful employment, we are also the ones who are most likely to end up in prison and without an education.  These glaring facts don’t even include astronomical rates of black male homicide, HIV infection, alcoholism, heart disease, etc.

As it stands, black men are at the bottom of the barrel in nearly every statistical category.   You don’t get this kind of devastation without highly coordinated participation and strategy, even by the victims themselves.  All parties, including us, have played a role in creating the hell on earth that defines the existence of the black male in America. Here are just a few factors that have supported the continued destruction of black men:

1) Good old fashioned racial discrimination: As much as we’d like to believe that black men choose their own demise, the reality is that there are significant challenges even for those who do all the right things.  President Barack Obama, arguably the most powerful black man in the history of the world, has constantly had his qualifications challenged by those who don’t believe that a black man should be running the country.

President Obama’s experience is replicated in nearly every corporation, factory, university and restaurant in America. My academic advocacy for black men led to tremendous ostracism from my colleagues at Syracuse University, where my 13 years of post-secondary education and 14-hour a day work ethic were unable to trump the color of my skin and the fact that a black man has not been tenured by any department in my business school in over 100 years of operating history.  But I don’t feel sorry for myself, because I hear from thousands of brothers across the country who do everything in their power to succeed, but are still being told that they aren’t as capable as the white guy down the hall.  In fact, it all starts when black boys hit the first grade.

2) Black males buying into self-destructive images in media: Apparently, someone wrote a book years ago which says that nearly every image of the black male on the radio or television must consist of someone who is either busting rhymes, dunking a basketball, throwing a football, getting high, getting drunk, getting arrested, having sex with every girl in the world, wasting his money on ridiculous jewelry, not going to school or carrying a gun on his hip.  These images are absorbed by young black boys at such an early age that many of them don’t have a chance.  Before the young man can discover his greatness, it is crushed like a grape by the sick, sad and disgusting influences which lie all around him.

Many black males who seek to escape this cultural tornado are ridiculed by those who’ve decided to drink the kool-aid.  Some are shot by other black men from the wrong side of the tracks.  Some are influenced by the fact that they receive more adulation for winning a basketball game than they do for passing a math test.  Such perceptions are reinforced by every corporation that tells the conscious rapper to act like a buffoonish thug to sell records, every woman who rewards her man for “keeping it hood,” and every parent who doesn’t correct their son for having five or six babies mamas without having a job.  We’d be lying to ourselves if we didn’t acknowledge that our own counter-productive choices don’t sometimes lead to our demise.

3) Politicians who just don’t give a damn: This is not meant to be an essay to pick on the two black males in the Obama Administration (the President and Attorney General) who’ve hardly said a word about disproportionate black male unemployment and incarceration.  Nearly everyone in Washington is tone deaf to the struggles of black men.  If whites were going through one-half of what we’re experiencing, we’d believe our nation to be in a state of emergency.

When I ask the political types what they are doing to address unprecedented black male unemployment, I hear that the rising tide will lift all boats(translation: If we help the white folks, then black people will benefit as a side effect….kind of like Trickle Down Economics).  When I ask about black male mass incarceration, I hear something about an 18-to-1 differential in the sentencing between crack and powder cocaine representing progress (18-to-1 is a little ways from true equality right?  Just checking – and this doesn’t come close to addressing the problem).   When I ask about employment discrimination, I hear about the end of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, helping gays in the military.

Let’s be clear:  All of these political gains are nice, but almost none of this matters to black men who struggle to get ahead on a daily basis.  The truthful translation of all of this political cowardice and double-speak is that it’s simply unprofitable (politically, economically and otherwise) to advocate on behalf of black males.  Marginalized men don’t make a difference at the polls and with black males effectively becoming the social cockroaches of America, the political backlash for black male advocacy is simply too strong for morally-bankrupt politicians to endure.  Effectively, we’re locked out of most forms of political support, not simply because we don’t have adequate coalitions in our communities, but also because there are other groups which seek to punish those who help us progress in this society (i.e. which is why even most black politicians in Washington are afraid to address clear, rampant and easily verifiable racial inequality).

The result is that black men must unify with one another.  Organizations such as 100 Black Men of America do a great job of getting the ball rolling, but much more must be done.  When the black man dies, the black family dies, so we are in all in this together.  As it stands, black children are filling the cradle-to-prison pipeline like never before, unmarried black women are being murdered in droves by a frightening HIV epidemic, and all of us are experiencing a shocking degree of post-traumatic stress disorder after enduring unspeakable urban tragedies at an early age.  All of this must stop and it must come to an end right now.

When you see a black boy acting like an ignorant thug, correct him.  When your brother or boyfriend has five kids that he’s not taking care of, get in his face about it.  When your son brings home bad grades from school, take him off the basketball team and get him a tutor.

In addition to addressing individual accountability for the challenges of black males, we must have zero tolerance for our society’s insistence upon keeping black men at the bottom of the socio-political barrel.  A path must be made for those men who make good choices and seek to do the right thing. Our society, jails and schools create more criminals than hip-hop music could ever create.

Institutions that do not hire African American males must be confronted with a ferocity that they’ve never witnessed before.  Politicians of any race who are too cowardly to speak up on black mass incarceration or unemployment must be fired from their jobs – power means nothing without having the courage to use it.  Similar to the spirit that created the Million Man March in 1995, black men must come together to form empowered, aggressive and thoughtful political coalitions that fight for no-nonsense solutions to our problems.  This must be done to protect ourselves and to support our families.  Our families must also stand with us, for there are millions of black men who are committed to challenging ourselves and each other to do better.

As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, the state of black male existence and employment is at a 40-year low.   But this 40-year low is preceded by a 400-year old problem.  If we continue to address the problem in the same ways we have in the past, we will continue to reach the same conclusions and find the same faulty solutions.  It’s time for a new day in black male America and that day must come right now.

Dr. Boyce Watkins is a Professor at Syracuse University and founder of the Your Black World Coalition.  To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here.

 

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  • Ken I

    Slow responses…..hitting too close to home Dr. Boyce. There are other issues that can be added to this list. It is sad that others are not commenting on this piece. Your number two issue is extremely destructive to black people.  

  • Brsprings

    well to begin the 100 black men is just another clique that even requires potential members to complete a BACKGROUND CHECK!!!  that is some bull we face background checks for everything and are being fooled to believe that if you have a MISDEMEANOR it wont count aganist you BULLSHIT. they use everyhting they can aganist you even thes so-called FRATS all this is some bullshit. between TV and RADIO everyone is trying to get money, too much talking and not enough money being put where it needs to be put!!!!! in the hands of men to provide for themselves and families!!!!!! the focus has been taken off the men between 30-50 who still have the strength to provide but are being cast aside for a generation that has all the information that it can handle and then some. just think if the super highway of information was available 35 yrs ago how many black men could have had the information on every subject to achieve and obtain knowledge!!!!! these kids now spend money on telephones and shoes WTF!!!!!!!!!! 

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_NF4T65BICBWGKBCCXP2EJO65MQ lowell

      I contend the major problem in ALL American communities 2011 is DIVORCE, and lack of 2 parent families. This is EXACERBATED by those lowlifes that drink the koolaid and don’t even get married in the first place.
      In ALL skin colors, children do better according to studies in families with married parents, not baby daddies…..black or white.
      The PATHOLOGY is rampant in this culture, i.e. Charlie Sheen school of winning.

  • Cmx22

    Very well said Dr. Watkins, I was that guy. That guy that no matter what the circumstances were, I felt like things were going to magically”change”…ain’t happenin. Forward march my brother, it has to be a ground movement. We should all(black men)be sick and tired of being sick tired, not to mention the hurt and the shame our ancestors must be feeling.

  • Anonymous

    I can see one very important thing here, I always say if something is not working, change it, start from the beginning. There is a problem in PARENTING for the youth. You have some parents who buy every new toy and game, and latest fashions for their kid, and think it is great because their parents did not do that for them as they grew up. You have single parents who are absent trying to make ends meet, leaving a child unsupervised at a time when “the village” mostly due to a lack of respect, is no longer looking out. PARENTING MUST BE ADDRESSED, EDUCATION MUST BE ADDRESSED!

    As far as politicians go, it seems once they get to office, they find things overwelming and not at all what they thought, this makes them withdrawl from doing the right thing into doing what ever can keep that paycheck rolling so their families can have the better things. It is all very SAD. 

    I find that when the articles speak on the truth, it makes you do a self examination, therefore, people who do not wish to examine and then let go of their own selfishness, will not be leaving comments.

  • Nastinupe

    I believe that we are the ones to blame for our own issues. Blacks have existed on this earth longer than any other group of people. America isn’t ours yet we refuse to leave. We have our home, Africa. We should all leave and create our own paradise there. Africa has all the resources to sustain our people. African americans and European Africans have the education to create and build. Let’s take what we have and go home and restore our Once great continent into the most powerful nation in the world.

    • A844977

      Yes….I total agree.  But the reality is most are blind to this logcial solution.

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_NF4T65BICBWGKBCCXP2EJO65MQ lowell

      Are you INSANE?
       Half the people in Africa are fighting tooth and nail to get HERE, and you GENIUS wants to leave America. JACKASS.
       I see the Africans at the beauty salon, and THEY seem very happy to be HERE,
      Jackass.
       I am NOT leaving anywhere I was BORN.

       I am as much an AMERICAN as anyone else. I have a birthright citizenship, and I didn’t sneak across the Rio Grande, either,

       Nasinupe, you are a JACKASS.

       -lowell@speakeasy.net

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_NF4T65BICBWGKBCCXP2EJO65MQ lowell

      By the was, GENIUS, a continent is NOT a nation. I am not leaving anywhere.
      You go BACK to Africa, and we will send you some USAID grain on a UN ship
      depending on what country you end up in, chief.

      • AntBee

        LOL!

        Now, your post was funny! :)

    • Cmx22

      Not sure why the Powell character is angry at you…guess the meds he’s on haven’t kicked in this early in the day. I get what you’re saying, problem is the usual suspects Politics, Religion and dependency on uncle sam will shut down any movement or progress just like it has in the past…I don’t know what its going to take to educate the masses of black people that have been duped into believing Afrika is not their home.

      • Altha Cutright

        My home is Oklahoma, now if your home is Africa why can’t you just go? I think you are full of s#$@. 

    • Altha Cutright

      Nastinupe, if you want to go home (Africa) why can’t you just go? oh you want all blacks to follow you. In your comment >let’s take what we have and go home and restore our once great continent. Well my home is Oklahoma and I do go back from time to time to visit family.

    • AntBee

      Well, no one is stopping you from taking what you have and leaving!

      What ship are you leaving on?

      America is our home.

      Africans want to come to America, and most do well here when they come!

      Perhaps you need to learn something from those Africans that come to the USA and become successful!

      Please let us know how you are doing in Africa!

      C ya!

  • Lawrencesharon357

    This is a very great article and very well written.  However, I believe that modern day hip hop does create an atmosphere where anything goes. It plays a tremendous part of young men getting suspended from school and ending up in jail at a young ages. During the 90’s when rappers spoke about violence, drugs, and other disorderly contact it was because of what they were exposed to.  There was a crack epidemic that affected most black communities. Today’s generation speaks of the same propaganda that has mainly been cleaned up by local churches, rehab centers, praying mothers, etc.  Although political forces spoke out against the violence in rap during the crack epidemic instead of investing time to clean up our local communities, today record labels spend a great deal of money in promoting the same messages.  We are much more than what you see on BET’s, Yorap!, and MTV’s top ten video choices.  If we continue to promote these same images out of greed, then we consign to what record labels and America are promoting to our kids daily while opening up the door for them to speak stuck in a time that has passed.  We need stop telling conscious rappers that they are old school because many of them endured greatly during our war on drugs in the USA and learned a lot from it.  The knowledge they posses have the power to change the hearts and minds of many young black lost men and women.  We have come too far to be stuck in the past.  The media has a strong psychological influence on a lot of people in the world.  There is a psychology that can sell the clothes off someone’s back, and there is always some fool who can be convinced to buy it and promote others to buy it as well.  Unless we get pass the things that we have become accustomed to in this country, we will continue to have high prison rates, large percentage of students failing the no child left behind act, and a high dropout rate. It is not enough to say that money makes one successful, but in our race it is culture awareness, education, enlightenment and tad bit of common sense that makes a person even greater.

  • Lawrencesharon357

    This is a very great article and very well written.  However, I believe that modern day hip hop does create an atmosphere where anything goes. It plays a tremendous part of young men getting suspended from school and ending up in jail at a young ages. During the 90’s when rappers spoke about violence, drugs, and other disorderly contact it was because of what they were exposed to.  There was a crack epidemic that affected most black communities. Today’s generation speaks of the same propaganda that has mainly been cleaned up by local churches, rehab centers, praying mothers, etc.  Although political forces spoke out against the violence in rap during the crack epidemic instead of investing time to clean up our local communities, today record labels spend a great deal of money in promoting the same messages.  We are much more than what you see on BET’s, Yorap!, and MTV’s top ten video choices.  If we continue to promote these same images out of greed, then we consign to what record labels and America are promoting to our kids daily while opening up the door for them to speak stuck in a time that has passed.  We need stop telling conscious rappers that they are old school because many of them endured greatly during our war on drugs in the USA and learned a lot from it.  The knowledge they posses have the power to change the hearts and minds of many young black lost men and women.  We have come too far to be stuck in the past.  The media has a strong psychological influence on a lot of people in the world.  There is a psychology that can sell the clothes off someone’s back, and there is always some fool who can be convinced to buy it and promote others to buy it as well.  Unless we get pass the things that we have become accustomed to in this country, we will continue to have high prison rates, large percentage of students failing the no child left behind act, and a high dropout rate. It is not enough to say that money makes one successful, but in our race it is culture awareness, education, enlightenment and tad bit of common sense that makes a person even greater.

  • James

    Fantastic article as usual Dr. Boyce!  It is painful to see these uemployment and jobless stats actually worsen for our black brothers. I am sure many of us were hopeful that conditions would improve with our electing black senators, mayors, governors, and a Black President, but obviously we come to the realization, that still “ain’t” the answer!  As you stated, much of this stems some 400 years -as such – why should corporations, politicians, and those who hold power want to change the way things are?  Things are progressing just the way they had planned it. Certainly, some of them are still probably amazed – “that Willie Lynch Doctorine is sure one impressive plan”!  It has and is continually working today right before our eyes.  Nevertheless, the only answer to our problem in the black community is economics.  As long as we do not create and provide job opportunities for one another, this crisis will never end. Most of our problems would be resolved if we all work together, own busineses, support one another, and hire our own.  Let us bring back “Black Wall Street”.

  • Linda Rosa

    My brother and I are 12 years apart. When he was born I remember praying that he wouldn’t go to jail, get involved in the street life or die at a young age. And this is not because we come from a “bad” family. I just knew that as a Black Man growing up in America that the cards were stacked against him! I wish I could report that my brother is one of the few who was able to get out h/e this is not the case. He is only 20 and he has already been branded a felon.

    In retrospect, I see that my mother was less strict on my brother then she was with my sister and I. As I look in my neighborhood, I see the same pattern. When boys act up it’s just “boys being boys” however when girls act up the behavior is not tolerated. Black mothers have to stop coddling and pacifying their sons. One quick solution (until we get Black men back in the households) is for Black mothers to give their sons household responsibilities, to teach them to volunteer (and thus to be invested in the welfare of the community) and to not tolerate negative or self-destructive behavior. It is only when Black parents make better decisions for their children that will lead to the children making better decisions for themselves.

  • http://profiles.google.com/greeneink Renee Greene

    It is black women, too. 

    Some of us older black women who got crashed out by Bush’s and buddy’s killing of the mortgage industry are now having to beg younger (MUCH) younger white females for jobs–and they are not hiring us older black females, either.

  • AntBee

    Dr. Watkins, please stop acting like black males have always been gainfully employed and educated BEFORE this joblessness happened in America! Stop the crap! If you really want to do something then please start by telling the truth! Certainly there is racism!  It always has been racism! This is an opportunity to turn things around but we must start facing up to our own issues and problems and understand what our part in the entire mess has been! And there are many jobs out here, however many black men do not and will not do them!!! So what is left? Crime? Well, that won’t work be cause that will only lead to more black men being locked up! How about black men taking responsibility for themselves? How about black men working hard at any Legal job to get ahead?  How about black men educating themselves so they are prepared when opportunity presents itself??? Stop the crap, stop blaming others, and do something about it!

    • Queenquadia

      Greetings Antbee, I certainly understand your energy and enthusiasm h/e Dr. Boyce is telling the truth and laying down the facts. That “pull yourself up by the bootstraps” mentality is a DAMN LIE. And I know b/c I too thought as you do and then God showed me the other side. Do you in your heart of hearts believe that people want to be hustlers, drug dealers, prostitutes and crack heads? I’ve worked in a number of institutions and I’ve seen the attempt to undermine and keep people of color “in their place”. Yes, there are some tokens among us who have been able to “get out”. However, this is not representative of the masses. Have you seen the sparkle and shine in little Black children between the ages of 3-5 and then to only see that shine diminished once they start public school? Or how about when children read in “history” books that their ancestors were considered “savages and uncivilized” and as a result were rescued by white people and brought to these shores to be there slaves?

      It’s easy to blame the oppressed h/e if you want to understand the situation fully it is important to look at the actions of the oppressor as well. Again, I understand your frustration b/c I at one time thought the exact same way you do. Check out Michelle Alexander’s The New Jim Crow and Tom Burrell’s Brainwashed, if you would like to research further.

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IgM5NAq6cGI

      http://www.amazon.com/Brainwashed-Challenging-Myth-Black-Inferiority/dp/1401925928

  • http://coalition4change.org/exposed.htm C4C Ward Jordan

    C4C members, consisting of present and former Black federal employees s negatively impacted by “race discrimination and retaliation”, recognize that despite the symbolism of having an African-American male in the White House, far too many Black males are shut out economically.   Disappointingly, too many of our long established leaders have gone  — silent.  The Black community now finds that it is  between “Barack and a hard place”.   Rather than effectively hold this administration accountable, many civil rights activist sit on the sideline as racism and retaliation takes a toll on the masses.  According to the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, over the last decade  more than 150 class actions have been filed by Black employees in the federal sector alone.   http://coalition4change.org/pubinterest.htm
    Additionally, racism / reprisal within the U.S. Federal Prison System continues to have an adverse impact on Black men .http://coalition4change.org/EEOC%20Report%20on%20BOP.pdf   

  • AntBee

    @Queenquadia ,
     
    Although I can appreciate you comment/opinion, please know that I have been around for a long time.
     
    I have raised and educated three successful BLACK children, and all are productive, and all of them give back!
     
    I do not need to read any book on being brainwashed, and I stand by my post. I come from a long line of educated BLACK people!
     
    I am a black woman, raised by black parents!
     
    We were raised to value education!
     
    We were raised to respect other human beings on the planet unless you have a reason not to do so!
     
    My parents worked hard!  They taught us how and why we should work hard as well. They taught us who we were, values,  and most of all self respect.
     
    This president is not going to give you your 40 acres and your mule! No other president in the past have given it to you have they?
     
    America is facing hard times!  ALL Americans for the most part, and I do agree that black males have had it hard, I also know that since the early 1970′s BLACK WOMEN have stepped up their game, became educated and moved forward!  Some black males (for whatever reason) did not do that and in fact made a choice to follow unproductive paths, and in times like these, of course we are on the bottom rung! What else would we expect?
     
    I am one who wants to hear and tell the truth no matter how much it hurts!
     
    I am not one to continue to sit around and blame others for my problems while doing NOTHING about them!
     
    BTW, my children always had a sparkle in their eyes! We made sure of that!
     
    Thank you for your comment.

  • Lamar Johnson

    @Nastinupe,You will never get your valid point threw to these savage blacks.Africans are in the Darkages just like when the white man was in the darkages.They love this place even though america spits in our face hourly.They want to be like them.They envy the white people and have taken their culture and unnatural way of living and adopted it for their own.They seek not to know the true and illustrious history of africans.They believe what the white man has taught them.They believe the white mans religions.Without a single thought that none of it makes sense.Without a thought that the way back to power is not threw the black man but threw the black woman.Africa in antiquity was a matriarchal society.Europeans started the patriarchal social order.In order for Africans to once again become prosperious we must wake up and shun the lies that have been told to us and about us.Most niggers have no idea what i’m talking about. The jews teach themselves,the asians that come here have some form of education before they decide to come here.So why are we subjected to be taught by whites.Who has no real reason to tell the truth about our origin or his own.Black people won’t wake up until someone has the guts to guide them and give them what is needed a true leader.Not Al”kiss obama ass”Sharpton or Jesse”I don’t care about black abortion conspiracy”Jackson.They did what was needed in the 20th century now we need a 21st century leader and it sure the hell isn’t Barak”I side with my mothers kind”Obama!

  • oren elow

    Thae Black man now need new “Black leaders” on front street. Leaders who want to fight and use the “Peaceful Movement” as their weapons. they got to get out there, in the street, in massive movements. they got to shut America down, like, stoping the flow of traffic and the flow of the Man’s money. Think big and get big results. Get really angry and act upon it. Black males got to stop all this talking about how bad Black males are doing and take action. The Man cares nothing about what you write and complain about. They have been listing to you whine for the past 40 years and they are just as hateful as they were back then. So stop whining Black men and pick up your weapons loaded with “Peaceful Movement”– MLK style! If you don’t want to fight for the rest of your freedom–then PLEASE shut up!! or take action.

  • Leta

         At the top of the list should be choices first.  Yes the system is corrupt but in the mean time what can we do as a people to help ourselves.  How can each one of us make a difference in our black communtiies?  Each one reach one. If you don’t want to get caught up in the penal system stop breaking the dad blame law!  Especially if you know they are  going the extra mile to lock  blacks up.

  • Leta

    The media is always going to show the negative side because that is what main stream society thrives on. You had the New Jersey wives, Orange county Wives and then here comes the ghetto fabulous Atlanta House Wives that made us look just as rediculious as the white shows. Now that Oprah has her network lets see what becomes of it.  Before you throw stones at the sista saying she caters to white folks, put 450 black brothers through Mooreshouse College then see if you still want to throw a stone.

    • wyattspoppa

      First, the article was amazing, I’ve never read Dr Boyce before but his work is a brilliant combination of delivering a message without sugar-coating it, yet devoid of racism and hatred. Leta, you are one of the most eloquent people I’ve ever read. For what it matters I’m white, I grew up in the Bronx and my father was a drunk who beat my mother, loser fathers come in every color. My best friend growing up was black, the other, Korean. I never saw their color, I still don’t. I was raised by a strong woman who taught me to love, period. I was raised Catholic, I’m certain it helped rear a color-blind child (faith in general, not being Catholic). My favorite music was rap, the songs were about girls, music, dancing, sports and not being “strapped”. I spent my time playing basketball and baseball (a sport sadly becoming extinct in black communities). Mom worked 2 and 3 jobs and couldn’t keep up with me as I got older so I found trouble, but the foundation was laid out so I made my way back to the light. That’s what my contribution is here today. At the risk of sounding vain, what would America be like if all white men saw as I do? How can it be replicated? I admit I have some experiences that can’t be taught (I went to jail many times, even prison for 2 weeks once, I’m a recovering alcoholic some 20 years this week) When I got to prison, guess who protected me as they recognized I “didn’t belong there”? Three black men. The white supremists came for me hours into my stay, they’d have snapped me like a twig (I was a male model, a “pretty boy”) Ya think 3 black men protecting a skinny white guy were bad men at their core? Not a chance. I never got their “stories” but I’ll bet you anything they just didn’t have the foundation, the family unit they needed. I have a son now, 5, he won’t notice color any more than I did, and that’s how it grows. Raise a child not to hate, they will raise children that don’t hate.

      • Tekguitar

        very well put

    • wyattspoppa

      Further still, help shape what your children do. My mom played Al Green, the Spinners, the Jackson Five so that’s the music I grew up with, I listen to Keith Sweat, Howard Hewitt, Parliament, I sang my baby boy to sleep many a night still with a Reverend Al tune. I love rap, he loves rap, of course it’s the Sugar Hill Gang and Hammer etc, but he doesn’t listen to Megadeath or NWA. I confess as an adult I like some gaangster rap, but that was my choice when I got older, not when I was 8! Movies? Disney, they’re kids…no “Boys in the Hood”. I wasn’t even allowed to watch Roots till I was 12, too violent. Play ball with your kids, my mom came to every game she could make it to, I made every all star team. I don’t care if you and their mom can’t stand the sight of each other, suck it up for your kids.
      Peace
      The “token white guy” heh heh

  • Tewdros

    everything you stated is on point ,I will add the great word’s of MARCUS GARVEY Black people must learn to do for self,and by the way BLACK’S aren’t just being discriminated on by white’s ,white Hispanics,certain Asians,Arabs ,and certain others are also participating in the full destruction of Black men in AMERICA!

  • CTA

    I guess we all need to stop playing the blame game and work together… Yes literally uplift the black man and yes woman… Also we need to create our own businesses, etc… Still today, yes 2011 majority of us are working for them…

    http://ThyBlackMan.com – Black Men Blog…

  • Dwayne1969

    I totatally agree with Dr. Watkins on every factor for the state of Black males in America.  I would like to see a CNN special or the like on this important matter and specifically addressed by the Obama Administration because the Uneducated, Unemployed, Incarcerated Black male problem is America’s problem. 

    • Nii Kootse

      Please why CNN  and not a “BNN” ? It is time that African Americans start their own TV stations.  There are very many super rich African Americans to invest in this project. Auntie Oprah had been on the TV all her life, why could she not start a “BNN” in the name of Black Americans. Why always crying we do not have to machine we do not have tools we do not. . . then BUILD the machine, make the tools, after all they have been invented already you j8st have to follow and build one, a TV station by Blacks. 
      I am an African African, and I know that about lack of this initiatives at grass roots which results in all Africans suffering and looking out to leave the continent, for other lands ALREADY BUILT!
       

      • Leta

        Oprah is for helping humanity as a whole and is helping plenty of black folks in the process.  While it is very important for us to help our race you never limit yourself to one race other wise you will limit your wisdom and knowledge that goes beyond the black race.  This is a world rich with cultures from around the world and every race is significant regardless of the color.  I’m speaking from a spiritual perspective.  Every human being is made in the image of God.  At one time a particular religion taught that the white man was the devil but I have encountered some black, brown, and red bone devils to.  Racism is a matter of the heart and only God can change their hearts if they want to be changed.  Be that as it may with God on my side it does not matter what any one tries to do to hinder my progress, I will triump in my endeavors. If you are not a spiritual person your perspective may be totally different and that doesnt make you wrong but unique in your way of opinion!

  • God’s_Angel

    You forgot one important factor: we as black people need to take back our schools. I agree with everything on your list. However, the problem has a lot to do with the education our children ARE NOT getting. And parents feel helpless to the public schools that are in their neighborhood, because they know the schools aren’t teaching what needs to be taught.

    Teachers have unions to advocate for them, but parents and students don’t have anyone to advocate on their behalf when schools don’t perform. Schools that are predominantly black need to be teaching our children how to be leaders, and how to be entrepreneurs. Because it is a fact that we get hired last. So with that in mind, we need to be taught how to hire ourselves.

    My community is about to take our school back. Teachers will no longer be able to hide behind a union contract. Because when our children have hope for their futures, then we can stop the bleeding… But when they don’t see college or other legal success in their future, they often fall into the trap.

  • Anonymous

    Dr. Boyce, this is hard, really hard. As pointed out in your piece, black folks have had it beat into them NOT TO TRUST EACH OTHER. African slaves in America were brutally taught to only TRUST WHITE PEOPLE! Where are still trying to recover from this 400 year old harsh tutorial whipped ino us by the white man. From this horrific mental LEGACY all problems of African Americans eminate. There is no neeed to consider anything else such as past events, present exceptions, possible contingencies, or scenarios for future hope.

    Black men have only one super human task to perform, considering the circumstances, and that is to FULLY EMBRACE TRUST OF OTHER BLACK MEN WITHOUT RESERVATION. Shedding mistrust of each other requires removing the emphasis that our youth pride themselves in having the greatest “STREET SMARTS” as the indication of the  highest level of character development. The very essence of “Street Smarts” is possesssion of an inflexable attitude full of cynical mistrust, particularly of other black people.

    As I said above THIS IS HARD! It is one thing to travel to Washington and spend time listening and applauding black men giving speeches on the need for black solidarity between black men, and quite another to implement the spirit of the Million Man March back home. Without a doubt, many black men will be hurt when they extend their hand in trust to a brother, just because the practical education of balck men will be a slow and painful process. But if we don’t start here, where and when shall we start?

    Like I said it’s HARD, but someone has to do it, and only we can do it.

    One last thought. We who are AA and have experience in the Internet blogging world have the responsibility to get together for the purpose of  building Internet communication and information channels for the black communities across this nation. Such a project is greatly needed to fill the information vacuum in the black communities which was  left by the disappearance of black newspapers from our communities. Now I understand that black youth comprise the majority of Tweeter users in America. However, the type of infomation that will help the black community survive and prosper in the immediate future can only be delivered by Internet web sites designed and dedicated to such a purpose. I for one would be glad to join with other black men in this unique project. This is truly one place where WE can start to make a contribution and over time a definite difference….

    Peace…
     

  • Plavonk300035

    Thank you Dr. Watkins for this article. It’s to bad that only a very small percentage of our community will really get what your saying! This is the perfect sermon to preach in our churches every Sunday morning services. I think you would be the perfect person to write a small pocket size books that guides our young and old brothers on how to be a strong black man in america the do’s and dont’s. I feel I’m one of the lucky ones. Even though I grow up in a single parent household and with all the temptations our community brings, I’ve never got caught up in the hype with drugs, aclohol, multiple baby mothers, or being incarcerated.

  • http://www.mosquitonet.com/~prewett/ John Prewett

    parvenu contends ” black folks have had it beat into them NOT TO TRUST EACH OTHER. African slaves in America were brutally taught to only TRUST WHITE PEOPLE! “  =====================
    What a crock of BS.   Just plain BS.   As if trusting White people was common and your problem.   Intelligent people of every color don’t trust anyone due to color.   You think I trust all Whites just cause they are White ?   Hell no I don’t.    If your trust depends on color,  then your just a terribly deluded person.     The destructive idea supported by White liberals and beloved by Black bigots that has been “beat [not literally] into”  the American consciousness for the past 50 or so years,  is the “white devils deserve punishment” POV. 

  • http://www.mosquitonet.com/~prewett/ John Prewett

    I appreciate Dr Watkins article.  Sadly the above # 1,  #2  and #3 constitute a terrible vicious cycle.     As Whites see more “destructive images,”  more Whites become more antiBlack.  Whites becoming more antiBlack incites more “destructive images.”  I predict that increasing the “with a ferocity”  component of dealing with Whites will prove to be counter productive.     As it has been all along.   

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_73CIKYA25XJQN4I3WN5CX6JTCU LEROY A

    This is what happens when the family structure is destroyed. No fathers to guide their sons, they turn into youths who were raised by the streets now they think that is cool. Obama need black males to be unemployed that way he has power over them. 

    • AntBee

      LEROY!! LEROY!!!!

      Please! Your comment about Obama needing black males to be unemployed so he can have power over them is foolish and frankly, very stupid!

      Power over them to do what?

      I tell you, some black folks thought process is truly messed up.

    • Altha Cutright

      Do you really feel Obama had something to do with this?

  • Anonymous

    The black man will continue to suffer for as long as the black man let a book be the last place they look.

    The black man had better be quick about it too because prisons are moving towards restricting and removing books. Some have already done so and only allow prisoners to read the bible.

    If you are a free black man then make your way to this book: http://store.mubarakinter-prizes.com/undercs.html

    The book Undercover Smart is the only book you need to excel from poverty, destitution and elimination into a world of employment, enjoyment, life, liberty and pursuit of happiness.

    Sincerely, Enoch Mubarak
    Presiden/ CEO Mubarak Inter-prizes
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  • Soulshadow55

    I think one thing that we as black americans have done to facilitate our demise is that we stopped shopping patronizing black businesses.  After desegregation, we couldn’t wait to buy from stores that weren’t owned by black americans, to leave traditionally black neighborhoods, and to abandon historically black colleges.   Our businesses dried up and our hotels and clubs have vanished.

    Now we see our neighborhoods being taken over by whites and Hispanics, our businesses gone to the dust heap of history and our colleges under assault by state governments that want to integrate them into their systems.  Mainly due to their locations and the valuable land they they occupy. 

    We must patronize our own.  I don’t care if other groups think that we are racist.  God bless the child that’s got his own.  When people complaint that Jewish people only patronize jewish businesses or that Irish people only go to Irish pubs, they don’t care.  They continue to support their own people and culture because they know that no one loves a Jewish person or respects a Irish person better than another Jewish or Irish person.  They know that their money belongs in their communinity and they don’t care if anyone else doesn’t like it.  Black people need to learn to love themselves and other black people around the globe.  Stop all this hating and work together to create businesses, industries, make connections, set up facilities and institutions that will provide jobs and services for black people here and abroad.  There are millions of opportunities in Haiti right now due to the earthquake, why aren’t black people working to assist the people of Haiti in their time of need.  Aren’t Haitian people African people just like us whose boat just dropped them off in a different location?  

    Black people are so sensitive to what other groups say about us.  We are so eager to please everyone but our own people that we deny our ownselves the right to self sufficiency and dignity.  If we patronizes our own businesses we could put our own people to work.  We should reach out to other black communities in Brazil, on the African continent and in the Caribbean.  We are a vast community and if we traded with each other and created a network of businesses among all of our vast communities, we would have built-in jobs and job growth for black men who needed jobs here and in the rest of the diaspora.  I know this will be hard due to the mistrust that has been bred into us but if we believe in the future of black people on this planet, we need to begin to work together to create our own.  I read a quote once that says, “in order to lead a people, you have to love a people.”  We must love ourselves so that our leaders and business people understand that black people should be their number one priority and that creating jobs, institutions and networks for putting black people to work is paramount to our survival.

    • AntBee

      Soulshadow55,

       ” If we patronizes our own businesses we could put our own people to work”

      Your opinions/points are well taken, however what seems to be a problem with some black owned businesses is that they do not offer what we need for the most part.  Selling African trinkets and cloth is not something needed in mass production, and no one is looking to go back to the jungle. Also, when we are in business we must offer quality, what is needed,  and provide good customer service.

      We can’t complain because others come into our community and set up shop. Those same old store fronts that they have renovated and opened for business has been in the communities for decades, and most black have never taken advantage of them. Remember, most of thos “other” who open those businesses are not rice people, but they have a vision and drive to be better so they live over the business and sometimes 2-3 families join together.

      Black people must be educated in masses or we will be doomed to the bottom rung behind everyone else.

      We need to face some hard facts, and change things. We can see that what we have been doing has not been productive as a whole. We need to truly look at the reasons why, because it is not just because of racism.