Judge Mathis Tears Into a Deadbeat Dad: Says He’s Black Community’s #1 Problem (Video)

Deadbeat dads: What a neatly packaged title for men who, for whatever personal reasons, escape the responsibilities of fatherhood. I’m willing to bet that this has been done since the very beginning of human copulation. Men are the male animal that is capable of populating the world with many women. It is the natural process of our animalistic lives.
Surely we consider ourselves civilized and many of us have been indoctrinated into religious beliefs that forbid this or that, but our natural way of being must be that we can populate the earth without total commitment to each birth.

That being said. We, the descendants of the African kidnapping and slavery, tend to forget that there was a psychological impact imposed on our ancestors which has followed each generation along right up to now. We were torn apart as families, our women raped and our men beaten, our children sold and our thought processes disrupted violently. If that weren’t enough our ancestors had to be indoctrinated into the “White” ruler’s religious trappings. All of these corrupting psychological issues add to the numerous levels of psychosocial behaviors we experience today. Add all this to an ‘Americanization’ process that keeps us thinking like ‘whites’ but in constant betrayal by whites because they can see our skin color and facial features as the opposite of them.

It is actually a rarity to see any man dedicated to all of his off-springs black or white or whatever. It is not the way we were built, but African-American men are always going to have (what we consider as a negative traits), magnified and multiplied. We should all know by now that whatever our white counterparts experience in this society is increased exponentially for us “blacks”. Whether it’s a physical disease or a psychological disease, we are going to see it multiplied in our specific community, and because we are conditioned to copy our white counterparts/rulers we will blame ourselves (as they do), and each other, for our transgressions, and some of us, and them, will utter the constant denials that we should not place the blame on anyone else and especially not “Whites”!

This kind of self denial combined with all of the other idiosyncrasies, are multiplied exponentially because of our conditioned psychological inputs, stemming from past and ancestral abuse and present abuse. Combined, it is amazing that any black family can grow and prosper in a cohesive-positive fashion today. It is doubly amazing to find African-American fathers who can show a nurturing responsibility in this torrid, and vapid age of the Anglo-Saxon Manifest Destiny/Supremacy, which is constantly at odds with the African-American peoples, and as we can see, have imprisoned many of our men women, boys, and girls. That is another issue that is also tied to the present and past conditioning mixed with the constant discriminatory/racist wave over our peoples.

It is not a surprise that a black man who was lucky enough to survive the ‘Deadbeat Dad’ syndrome is  now attacking black men who didn’t survive that combination of abuse and psychological damage. As I said before. “We are made to turn on each other”, instead of trying to recognize what the underlying symptoms/problems truly are. How can you buy this if you can’t understand it? How can you understand it without taking in the whole picture from the kidnapping and brutal slavery up to the ongoing racism and exclusion of power and wealth etc.? How can anyone pass judgment against us without having been enlightened enough to see the whole of the story and understanding it in a proper fashion?

The way the privileged upper-class ‘black’ people and other ignoramus of lower ilk,  usually act, is to ignore everything that doesn’t fit into their tiny ‘white’ religious-god-believing, conditioned mindset, and condemn those less fortunate, worse ignorant and poorer educated etc, than themselves. While dismissing all of the variables past and present that  are the true causes of  practically all of our dilemmas, but you can solve these problems without addressing the underlying symptoms.

First, I have to agree with Judge Mathis’ statement that this (idiot) black male is a “disgrace” to the black men and black community at-large. I don’t go around characterizing people but this black male is beyond “stupidity, ignorance, distain, disappointment” and a “waste of living flesh”. Listening and looking at his response to Judge Mathis’ questions just made my blood boil because he never made any sense of anything that he said, he lacked embarassment, shame, guilt, remorse, regret or an ounce of decency. If I was his parent(s) I would have shot myself from the shame of him being on national television and being evident of my total failure as a parent. The federal government should go after this idiot for fraud (getting social security) unless he is collecting for an acute case of “stupidity”. No wonder the American people is sick and tired of providing “entitlements” to this type of lazy-ass, irresponsible baby-making males (and females) regardless of ethnicity. Unfortunately, the babies are made to suffer in the long-term and the short-term if we “cut-off” their financial support by the government. As far as the women are concern in the scenario I think that the women who gave birth to this idiot’s children should at least have their heads examined and their fillopian tubes tied. This woman who has filed this lawsuit against “mr.ginger bread man” ought to be “fixed” right along with the rest of the dumb-ass females who ‘parted’ their legs for this fool. She apparently has absolutely no shame or self-respect to go on national television and announce that she is pregnant too by this idiot after knowing his “track record” with other women and the trail of children left behind, damn! I can go on and on but whats the use, until we begin to make “tough” decisions about this kind of irresponsibility by these type of people, we can look forward to being dragged down the toilet right along with them.